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Hey Honey, why don't you try to shoot this?

3/4/2014

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I believe my experience with guns was probably not much different from many other ladies of my generation.  Guns were always in our house.  I didn’t mind them being there, I just wasn’t comfortable handling them.  From the time I was a child until a few years ago, my involvement with guns was as follows: The guys would load up the truck and we would head out for a day of shooting.  I remember standing around with the men, watching as they unloaded the truck, spread out all the guns and ammo on the tailgate, and set up targets to shoot.  After several rounds of shooting and passing around the guns, one of them would ask, “Hey, honey, would you like to shoot this?”  They would load the gun, show me the safety, and hand it over with a few pointers on how to hold it.  I would shoot at the targets (usually hitting them - girls are just natural shots!) and, once the magazine was empty, they would reload the gun, and the process would start all over again. In all the times I went shooting, I honestly don’t ever remember loading a magazine, clearing a jam by myself, and I definitely never took part in cleaning the gun when we were done.

Fast forward...a few years ago, I found myself living alone with a teenaged daughter and traveling quite a bit.  At the coaxing of a friend that I should learn how to protect myself, I decided to get a gun and a permit to carry. I borrowed a gun and signed up for the TN carry permit class. I was the only female.  I remember being very intimidated by a lot of the terminology and being totally lost in much of the conversation because of my lack of knowledge regarding guns. I also had difficulty focusing on the lecture, because all I could think about was whether or not I would be able to pass the shooting portion of the test. I completed the written exam, and miraculously, put enough holes in the target to pass the class.  

Not long after obtaining my concealed carry permit, a friend gave me a Glock 23C, my first-owned gun. I decided that if I was going to own a gun, it was probably a good idea to become better acquainted with it, so I started going to the range with a male friend to practice.  Because I wanted to improve, I started going alone and more frequently.  Whenever I was at the range, I saw only a handful of ladies, usually with a male counterpart, experiencing much of the same things I had experienced in the past, and hearing on more than one occasion, “Hey, honey, why don’t you try to shoot this?”

The more experience I gained, the more confident I became. I literally became obsessed with the sport of shooting.  I took a few classes, asked a lot of questions, and searched all over the web and You Tube for information.  The more I learned, the more I realized that my needs and  interests as a female shooter were different from the guys. I made some terrible mistakes and choices in my purchases of guns, holsters, and various accessories that didn’t come close to meeting my needs as a female shooter.  

I saw a TV series during which Nikki Jones, the owner of Austin Sure Shots, an all-ladies pistol club, made an appearance.  I happened to be in the Austin area and went to her gun club.  On the trip home, all I could think about was how awesome it would be to belongto an all-ladies shooting club in Tennessee.  Unfortunately, I couldn’t find anything in the local area that matched my interest. (However, since starting my own club, I have met some fabulous women in the area that have shooting organizations that I just didn’trealize existed.) I wanted to share my love and passion for guns with other ladies. I wanted to create a safe and social environment where they could come together and be educated about firearms and/or share their knowledge with other ladies.  A place where a beginner could be comfortable while learning, and a place where experienced shooters could improve their skills.  Through the encouragement of a close friend, and with the support of Eric Matson from Tactical Advantage Corp (TAC), I was able to start an all-ladies gun club, “Aphrodite Shooters,” where we encourage ladies to “Love their Guns”.  In May 2013, the Aphrodite Shooters had their first club meeting at TAC.  We had three members in attendance.  Today, we have over 75 members and are growing each week! We are so grateful to TAC, not only for sponsoring the Aphrodite Shooters and our club's events, but TAC also offers a wide range of women’s only classes and stocks their range with guns and accessories geared towards the female shooters.  

A few weeks ago, I was practicing at the range and saw one of our club members with her spouse.  She had just purchased a new 1911 and was trying it out for the first time.  As I was loading my magazine, I overheard her yell to her husband (who was shooting on another lane), “Hey, honey, why don’t you try to shoot this?”  It made my day!

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My Passion for Shooting

10/1/2013

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Many of you have been sharing your stories about how and why you became involved in shooting.  Over and over I hear about how it has impacted your self-confidence and courage to try new things.  I decided to start this blog not so much to share the technical aspects of shooting, but to be used as a platform for us to share our passion for shooting.  So here goes…How my passion for shooting started: 

As women, we tend to put the needs of others before ourselves; we are mothers, daughters, wives, sisters, employers, employees, volunteers, etc.  We become the core for others requesting our time and attention and it often leaves us emotionally drained and hollow over time.  This is the place that I found myself a few years ago; and then, I came across this quote in a book entitled, As a Man Thinketh, written by James Allen: 

“Women are anxious to improve their circumstances, but unwilling to improve themselves, therefore they remain bound.”

It absolutely jumped off the page and into my soul!  I knew at that moment, something would have to change, but I had no idea what.  I’m an avid list maker, so I started by making a list of all the things I felt I needed to do and what I believed were my responsibilities to take care of them. Even though I have discernment for others and doing for others, it became apparent by looking at my list that I lacked the ability to govern most of them.  I realized that the only things I could truly control and have power over were the things about me.  What I allowed or put into my body and what I allowed to come out of it.  For example, I could control my health, what I ate and whether or not I am physically active. I can control who I listen to and who I turn away from. I can control my level of effort. I can choose to sit on the couch and do nothing or I can will my body to get up.  I realized I could also control what came out of me, how I reacted to others and to situations, my body language and most importantly, the words I spoke.  Once I recognized this and started to make changes to myself versus trying to change, control or influence others, my circumstances and outlook started to improve. My second list incorporated the things and people I was thankful for.  As I started to make my list, I found myself thankful for things I had previously held in contempt.  I had been so unhappy at work, but many of the things I was thankful for were because of my job.  As I increased my thankfulness, so did my happiness at work. The last list was my goals and desires.  It included things I aspired to accomplish or do.  Those were financial goals; career goals; places to see; materialistic wants, and buried somewhere way down on my list was the desire to “Obtain my carry permit and to carry with confidence”.  Little did I know that acting on this one desire would make such an impact in my life.  It helped to unbound myself and has taken me down a path I never knew existed.

So that was my start.  But oh, the mistakes I made learning to shoot!  Those future stories make for another blog!  I want to hear from you.  Tell us about who, what or how you got interested in shooting.

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    Eva I, Owner of Aphrodite Shooters and Aphrodite Shooters Gun Club

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